This morning I heard the most touching story on the radio. It served to remind me that you just never know when you might touch the life of someone else. You can do the smallest thing that will impact someone forever! I spend a good bit of time at Fed Ex and whenever I go the nicest homeless man always seems to be there. He is very talkative and at Christmas time I felt called to reach out to this man. However, each time I stopped in to drop something off he was not there (just my luck!). Finally, a day before I left for Minneapolis I decided to leave the gift with the kin, older lady that helped me. She said the man had never accepted a gift that anyone had brought in and left so she wanted to take my phone number so I could pick the gift up in the even he rejected it. I was hopeful he might decide to take the gift as it was nothing near large as other brought in, but at the same time I knew what my chances were. Well, I boarded my flight to go home the next night and as soon as I landed I noticed I had a voicemail. It was from the kind lady at FedEx who said she was so shocked and touched, but the homeless man had decided to accept my gift! He had then proceeded to tell her he thought I might be some sort of angel- I was very flattered by this, but know I anything but! However, the best news was yet to come. This past week I was in FedEx and I found out that this many had started going to the church down the road! He apparently said he had received a card at Christmas with some words that urged him to attend. While this may or may not have been my same card I am just so thrilled. In the grand scheme of things we are on this short a very short time. However, by accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior you can be given eternal life. We should do all things for His glory! The following story is brilliant example of people going out of their way for someone else and these great men and women clearly strive to glorify God through all they do!
There Are Some Games In Which Cheering For the Other Side Feels Better Than Winning
Rick Reilly
High school football is big in America, but I suppose there is no place where it is bigger than in Texas. Friday nights there are legend.
The fans scream; the stands are packed; cheerleaders with pom-poms jump and sway to the beat of the school band and everybody joins in the chants and stomps their feet on the metal stands until you are sure they will collapse.
This is the frenzy of Texas high school football.
But there is one football team in Texas that is a little different. When they play on Friday night, their stands are empty, no band, no cheerleaders, no mass of parents or townsfolk wearing the school colors and waving banners and flags. They take the field without anyone cheering them on. When they score a touchdown, which rarely happens, there is no wild celebration behind them… All of it seems hollow and muffled in contrast to the tidal wave of roars and drums and chants that come from the opposing side.
They are the Tornadoes of the Gainesville State School, a fenced, maximum-security facility. The young men who go to Gainesville State are there because they have made some major mistakes in their lives. But the players who are on the team are there because they have worked hard and have earned enough good behavior points that gives them the privilege to leave the facility and play football on Friday nights—always an away game for them—always a home game for their opponents—and almost always a loss. They don’t have a weight program or training equipment or high-paid coaches and assistants. They don’t have a large pool of players to draw from. The school has 275 boys, but many are too old or too young or can’t or don’t meet the “criteria” to play. And they don’t have the support of a town and a mass of parents and family and reporters and bands and cheerleaders.
That is, until November 7th. Something changed. They played Grapevine Faith Christian School.
A few days before the game, the Gainesville coach, Mark Williams received a call from Faith Christian coach, Kris Hogan, asking him if it would be okay if Faith formed a “spirit” line for his team when they ran on the field. Mark said, “Sure, that would be a real encouragement to the kids.” He thought that the line would consist of a couple of the JV cheerleaders, but when they took the field, there were a hundred people in it and it stretched to the 40-yard line, filled with Faith Christian parents, fans and varsity cheerleaders, complete with a banner at the end for them to burst through that read “Go Tornadoes!”. And then, those parents and fans sat in the stands behind the Gainesville players and when the Tornadoes broke the huddle and went up to the line they could hear people cheering for them, by name. When they got a first down, “their” fans erupted.
You see, coach Hogan had sent an email out to the Faith Christian parents and students asking them to consider doing something kind for these young men, many who didn’t know what it meant to have a mom and dad who cared, many who felt the world was against them, not for them. Hogan asked that they simply send a message that these boys were “just as valuable as any other person on earth.”
So half of the Faith Christian fans were now sitting on the visitor’s side of the field, cheering for the Gainesville team, and in some cases, against their own sons. –Cheering for a team decked out in mismatched old uniforms and helmets. –Cheering for boys who wouldn’t go home that night and have a smiling dad slap him on the back and feel his mom put her arms around him and say “I’m so proud of you son!” –Cheering for the underdog.
This was a Friday night like no other for the Tornadoes. In the locker room, the players were confused. “Why are they cheerin’ for us, coach?” “Because, men, they want to encourage you. They want you to know that they care about you…that you have value.”
Coach Williams said the boys were stunned. For many of these kids, it may have been the first time that anyone had shown them, so visibly, unconditional love.
They were down 33 to nothing at the half. Williams encouraged his team to set a goal for the second half: to score a touchdown against this vastly superior team. And when the boys from the State School took the field again, with their fans cheering them on, everything started to click. And they did score. Not once but twice.
And the fans went wild.
Coach Williams was asked what the bus ride was like on the way home and he laughed and said that they were all asleep—their bellies were full. That’s because after the game, the parents brought a whole bunch of food over to the guys: hamburgers, fries, candy, sodas…and included in the meal sack was a Bible and a personal letter of encouragement from a Faith Christian player. But then, he said, they formed a line for us out to the bus. And the parents patted them on the back and said, “Nice game” and “Look forward to seeing you guys next time.”
As they left the field that night, Coach Williams grabbed Coach Hogan and said to him: “You’ll never know what your people did for these kids tonight. You’ll never, ever know.”
The fans scream; the stands are packed; cheerleaders with pom-poms jump and sway to the beat of the school band and everybody joins in the chants and stomps their feet on the metal stands until you are sure they will collapse.
This is the frenzy of Texas high school football.
But there is one football team in Texas that is a little different. When they play on Friday night, their stands are empty, no band, no cheerleaders, no mass of parents or townsfolk wearing the school colors and waving banners and flags. They take the field without anyone cheering them on. When they score a touchdown, which rarely happens, there is no wild celebration behind them… All of it seems hollow and muffled in contrast to the tidal wave of roars and drums and chants that come from the opposing side.
They are the Tornadoes of the Gainesville State School, a fenced, maximum-security facility. The young men who go to Gainesville State are there because they have made some major mistakes in their lives. But the players who are on the team are there because they have worked hard and have earned enough good behavior points that gives them the privilege to leave the facility and play football on Friday nights—always an away game for them—always a home game for their opponents—and almost always a loss. They don’t have a weight program or training equipment or high-paid coaches and assistants. They don’t have a large pool of players to draw from. The school has 275 boys, but many are too old or too young or can’t or don’t meet the “criteria” to play. And they don’t have the support of a town and a mass of parents and family and reporters and bands and cheerleaders.
That is, until November 7th. Something changed. They played Grapevine Faith Christian School.
A few days before the game, the Gainesville coach, Mark Williams received a call from Faith Christian coach, Kris Hogan, asking him if it would be okay if Faith formed a “spirit” line for his team when they ran on the field. Mark said, “Sure, that would be a real encouragement to the kids.” He thought that the line would consist of a couple of the JV cheerleaders, but when they took the field, there were a hundred people in it and it stretched to the 40-yard line, filled with Faith Christian parents, fans and varsity cheerleaders, complete with a banner at the end for them to burst through that read “Go Tornadoes!”. And then, those parents and fans sat in the stands behind the Gainesville players and when the Tornadoes broke the huddle and went up to the line they could hear people cheering for them, by name. When they got a first down, “their” fans erupted.
You see, coach Hogan had sent an email out to the Faith Christian parents and students asking them to consider doing something kind for these young men, many who didn’t know what it meant to have a mom and dad who cared, many who felt the world was against them, not for them. Hogan asked that they simply send a message that these boys were “just as valuable as any other person on earth.”
So half of the Faith Christian fans were now sitting on the visitor’s side of the field, cheering for the Gainesville team, and in some cases, against their own sons. –Cheering for a team decked out in mismatched old uniforms and helmets. –Cheering for boys who wouldn’t go home that night and have a smiling dad slap him on the back and feel his mom put her arms around him and say “I’m so proud of you son!” –Cheering for the underdog.
This was a Friday night like no other for the Tornadoes. In the locker room, the players were confused. “Why are they cheerin’ for us, coach?” “Because, men, they want to encourage you. They want you to know that they care about you…that you have value.”
Coach Williams said the boys were stunned. For many of these kids, it may have been the first time that anyone had shown them, so visibly, unconditional love.
They were down 33 to nothing at the half. Williams encouraged his team to set a goal for the second half: to score a touchdown against this vastly superior team. And when the boys from the State School took the field again, with their fans cheering them on, everything started to click. And they did score. Not once but twice.
And the fans went wild.
Coach Williams was asked what the bus ride was like on the way home and he laughed and said that they were all asleep—their bellies were full. That’s because after the game, the parents brought a whole bunch of food over to the guys: hamburgers, fries, candy, sodas…and included in the meal sack was a Bible and a personal letter of encouragement from a Faith Christian player. But then, he said, they formed a line for us out to the bus. And the parents patted them on the back and said, “Nice game” and “Look forward to seeing you guys next time.”
As they left the field that night, Coach Williams grabbed Coach Hogan and said to him: “You’ll never know what your people did for these kids tonight. You’ll never, ever know.”


41 comments:
Both wonderful stories. I'm sitting here crying now. Thanks for sharing.
What touching and sweet stories! Thank you for sharing!
This story seriously made me cry. At my desk. At work. How embarrasing!
These are both wonderful stories. Thank you for sharing. It is amazing in many cases how a small but significant gesture can make such a difference.
That is the sweetest thing, you helping the homeless man, I am sure that you did seem like an angel to him......maybe your witness will change his life!
This touches me deeply. Such beautiful stories. My eyes are filled with tears and for thankful prayers for all who reach out to someone else whatever their situation. Thank you so much for sharing and God Bless. Hugs, Marty
What an awesome post Hopsy! Thank you for sharing both stories.
I read your blog all the time, but I haven't commented! I don't know why I haven't because I absolutely adore your blog! I promise I will comment more. Anyway, I had to comment today. Both stories are so touching! Thank you for sharing! You truly are an angel to that homeless man and a reminder that it is in all of us to be an "angel" to someone!
what touching stories! and while i know you did not post the first story to receive glory, i applaud you in your bold witness for Jesus. He is not very popular in this day, but people like you will keep His witness alive everywhere, from FedEx to the blogworld.
love to you!
I heard about the Gainsville State School football game a few months back. We have friends with kids in schools that also play them in football. I did some work with these types of youth when I was taking college classes years ago. Many, if not all of these boys have been through the juvenile justice system and this is it. The family situations that they were raised in are appalling to say the least. I doubt they have had much experience with what we call "normal" in their short lifetime. Many of them know how to play the system and get what they want, some for survival and some as manipulators. Playing football in their program is something that is earned and is a privilege. The only people they usually have watching them are the guards that are posted around the football field as they play. If the efforts of this coach impact just a few of these young men think of what will happen down the road as they become adults, fathers and working citizens.
What this coach did for his own students is what many of us wish for our teenagers to experience. He practices what he teaches and hopefully had an effect on everyone involved. What a role model and an asset in this day and time when winning titles and belittling other teams is so prevalent. This coach and this story have provided an unlimited dialog around the kitchen tables of many of our friends, especially those with high school sons.
I'm so glad you posted this and hope that it has the same effect on your readers as it did to many of my friends.
This story brought tears to my eyes! Thank you for sharing it, I am going to pass it along.
:)
So wonderful. It's inspiring to hear stories like this. It just goes to show how important little acts of kindness can have huge impacts on people's lives!
Now I have tears streaming down my face. Such a beautiful story! Thanks for sharing.
I have chicken skin now after reading those beautiful stories!
What wonderful stories- I am tearing up.
You are truly a beautiful person inside and out.
Wow. The things we all can aspire to are amazing. This story has touched my heart today, as many have (including Kelly's) over the last few weeks. Blog land is such a great place to share events, stories, and ways to praise. Thanks for this post, H!!
Oh I'm tearing up too...what an incredible story.
What a beautiful and uplifting post at the end of a long day! Thank you for that! Isn't is nice to know that everyday you always have the ability to make someone smile!
Awwww! These stories made me cry! How sweet.
Not one, but two great stories! Thanks, KP. : )
Hopsy, thank you so much for posting this. Both the football and your story are heartwarming. Isn't it the most wonderful feeling to do something wonderful for someone else? I always think it makes me feel better than it makes them feel. Best to you!!!
Thanks for sharing these touching stories! I just found your blog and I'm very glad I did!
What amazing stories. People don't realize the impact they have on each other lives.
I hope other schools start to follow the Christian's school actions and show the state team the same respect and hospitality.
I am sitting here in bed crying like a baby thinking how grateful I am for the many blessing bestowed upon me. Thank you for this reminder.
I heard this story on the radio station I listen to, www.spirit1053.com on my way home from work yesterday and I teared up in the car. The woman reading the story welled up as well, she could barely finish it. It is so important that we never forget we have teh power to change a life forever.
Blessings,
Caroline
Wonderful stories about how we are here for a purpose to spread God's light to others. Thank you so much for sharing those very moving stories. I definately cried!
:) your the greatest.
Very cool - I googled it and found the ESPN magazine link here, which was a bit different, but at least gives people a chance to check that out, too!
http://sports.espn.go.com/espnmag/story?section=magazine&id=3789373
I love those stories, thank you for sharing!
Ruby's Fairy Godmother (Norah)
I love those stories, thank you for sharing!
Ruby's Fairy Godmother (Norah)
Hopsy - You are such a wonderful young lady. Your parents must be so proud of you. To think that the homeless man is now attending church and receiving fellowship from others! And he can feel so important now that he knows the love of Jesus Christ. And the story about the Gainesville State School brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing both stories with us! xoxo
I had the day off, but just happened to hit the gym early. I normally listen to them on the way to work, but caught this story as I drove home from the gym. I'm so glad that I was up for it, because it was absolutely touching.
Thanks for sharing it with everyone!!
that gave me goosebumps, the kindness of humanity never ceases to amaze me!
Oh my goodness, that story was precious. Thank God for people like those parents and you who give so unselfishly and generously. ;)
Thank you for being sensitive to the prompting of the Holy Spirit in reaching out to this homeless man. We are all blessed!
oh so beautiful.
Wow - what touching stories. God works in mysterious ways through all of us and it is refreshing to know that we can each make a difference in complete strangers lives.
What great inspiring stories! I am so glad the man accepted something from you.
Kim
Those are both amazing stories!! Thanks so much for sharing!!
Tear jerker. We used to play basketball against them when I was in High School. Wish we had done this!
I read both stories and now I can't stop crying.
Oh my gosh that made me cry
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